Ciara is engaged??! What’s the rush?

Doesn’t it seem like it was just yesterday that reports were released about Ciara’s brand new relationship with NFL player Russel Wilson? And now she’s engaged?image11-e1438635972203                                          Picture Credit: http://blacksportsonline.com/

Congrats to her but am I the only one that thinks that they might be moving a bit too fast? Marriage isn’t taken seriously lately, especially in Hollywood! What happened to people dating for at least 5 years first before thinking of walking down the
aisle? Why rush it? Is 1 year enough time for you to really get to know somebody that you could commit to for the rest of your life? I don’t think so. Will their marriage last a long time? Probably not.

Yes, I am happy for Ciara. After all, I am a fan especially back in the day when her “1,2 step,” and “My Goodies,” was prevalent, but is she really ready for marriage? She has a young son whom she’s trying to gain custody of. Correct me if I’m wrong, but many women are scared of living alone till they age and die that they’ll settle just for the sake of being comforted and feeling complete? Is that the case for Ciara? I don’t know, but I know someone who is going through a similar situation, where she knows she’s unhappy with the relationship but is scared of leaving her boyfriend because she doesn’t want to grow old and alone. While, growing old isn’t something you can’t change. Even if you’re living alone, doesn’t mean that you have to allow yourself to feel alone mentally. After all, you can be your best company, if you allow yourself to be.

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